Today we are sharing a very different money story, where one of our readers is going to share his life journey of becoming a middle class from being RICH years back. Yes – you heard it right.
As per his request, we are not revealing his name and identity. I thank him to share his story with a bigger audience.
Here it goes…
My story starts with an assumption that most of the jagoinvestor readers belong to a middle-class background or from a humble background. Most of the readers have either already moved to a level higher or are trying to move to a level of lifestyle better than what was available to them in their childhood.
My story is a complete reversal
Yes, I moved from affluent background to a mid-income kind of family (from a big city perspective and not on pan India basis)
My story is a lesson on why financial planning and diversification are important. I was born in a rich business family of a small town (population of 1 lac), my father was a well known and socially connected/respected person in society.
I still remember we used to have a car (when there were only two or three cards in the whole town), BSNL landline with a two-digit number (i.e. less than 100 connections in the whole town!). Money was the last thing to worry about in our family. Things were very smooth in my childhood, and we used to discuss how to take the next leap towards the ultra-rich families.
There was more than sufficient money, my family used to give donations to temples, hospitals, etc. I had an elder brother (1 year) and I never wore his used clothes, never used his books (same school), and never used his toys.
How we lost money
Unfortunately such was the turn of time that the business suffered three-four very bad years, which eroded the entire family wealth.
This coupled with the lavish wedding of my sister left almost nothing for us two brothers. My brother decided to join the business and I was banished to a poor software job 7 yrs back. I initially faced a lot of troubles, but gradually managed to come out of the situation and did an MBA and now I am doing well. Even the family business is doing great under my brother’s leadership.
It still gives me a nightmare, that we had a substantial loss in the family business. Probably I would have never discovered blogs like jagoinvestor and subramoney had that loss not occurred. The virtues of financial planning were learned at a great cost.
Did it impact our social life?
Not much…
One very good (some may consider it wrong) thing which my father did even when business was downhill, he never cribbed in front of society. He never let the lifestyle go down.
So society never knew that the problem is so deep. When my brother joined the business, the total net worth of our business excluding the house and gold was just ~20 lacs (We lost 96% of business value, down from 5-6 crores in real terms. note that this was many many years back) with two marriage and my MBA still pending. But still he was able to conduct business by borrowing (unsecured) and credit, only because our credit rating in the society was still AAA.
Had the society knew about this, we would be ostracized. Luckily my brother turned around the business and things became much better going ahead.
My childhood and money
My first good experience with money was when I got pocket money from my grandfather. I used to get 1 rupee a day and my brother 2 rupee, and we used to get candies from the shop. The pocket money gradually increased to Rs 30 rupee a week on Sunday, and we used to feel like Tata/Ambani on that day.
Not even a single incident I remember, when my parents refusing to give me money. Even during the bad days they maintained the lifestyle, paid for my college, held lavish wedding for my sister. I as an individual was not a spendthrift and that helped a lot.
I was educated in the best school in the nearby city, but education was just a formality since the ultimate goal was to join business. But very early in life, being from a business family, we were introduced to the importance of money very early.
My lifestyle NOW vs. THEN
Although financially I am comfortable now, there is no more that kind of luxury in my life. I am very frugal now. Here are some points which can give you all an insight into how my life has changed.
- I live in a rented 1-bed room flat in Mumbai.
- Consciously own no car and live a frugal lifestyle.
- Earlier the minimum we traveled was 2AC, now the maximum I travel is 3AC
- I avoid overseas holidays which my colleagues frequent
Although I do not complain, I wish I should have more wealth. I have done full financial planning (and also my family’s) with the help of blogs like Jagoinvestor.
Since I cannot afford the mistake which my family had done, I am completely opposite to them.
And I am seeing the good result to my net worth, with 5-7 years of job and though my salary is not high, my net worth is high. The only reason is being frugal and financial planning, avoiding toxic products like LIC policies etc. I have never touched ULIPS, endowments, FD ever in my life (totally my views)
How important is Money in life – My views!
Money is very important, as important as health. The emotional trauma of not having enough money is unbearable. When I was young money was always there and I thought it would always be there in abundance. I just have to graduate and join the business, but life had other plans for me.
After the tragic losses in business, we decided as a family that one of the brothers should find a stable job; while others will try to revive the business (which is now revived by God’s grace). All the while, I never felt the urge to study since the ultimate destination of father’s business required no qualification; I suddenly was required to study and find a decent job.
So I pulled up my socks and did engineering and MBA and landed a good job in the financial sector now.
I fantasize regaining old glory days and become a wealthy person, and I believe courtesy the financial education I may or may not live rich but I am sure I will die rich. I think if I can accumulate 5 crores (in today’s terms), it will make me feel that my future is secured.
Stupid mistakes people do in area of money
Everyone has their own way of looking at things, but having seen a lot of money in life, I think a few mistakes people do are
Mistake #1 – No financial planning, just random investing
Most of the people just randomly invest in some policies or open few FD’s without any concrete planning for future. They think life will continue in the same way like last 5-10 yrs. But life can have lots of surprises at times. One should always be 2 steps ahead and plan for their bad times. Start doing your financial planning. If you are not smart enough to do it yourself, accept it and hire a professional.
Mistake #2 – Invest/consume gold/jewellery
Do not see gold and jewelry as investments. Some of it should be just used for personal consumption, but nothing more than that. Try to invest your money in robust financial products which create wealth for you over long term.
Mistake #3 – Invest in fixed deposit
Fixed Deposits are not for investments, It’s to just park your money for 1-2 yrs and nothing more than that. If you want to create wealth, fixed deposits are not the best thing in today’s world. By the way, I am yet to meet someone who has become a millionaire by putting money in FD’s , unless you put millions in FD!.
Mistake #4 – Invest in property without proper due diligence
I can’t understand, how people invest their hard earned money in real estate without proper due diligence. There are enough cases where lakhs and crores are stuck in bad deals and people have just lost money. If its real estate, catch a lawyer, pay his professional fees and check things in detail before committing your money.
Mistake #5 – Same with stocks
It is just beyond my understanding that people think they can do stock investing and trading successfully for years and generate consistent profits. If it was so easy, everyone would be doing that by now. Leave things to professional and don’t do stock trading (unless you are really a pro and into it full time)
My father suffered from Mistake # 1. There was no financial planning done at that point in time. Most of the money was either plowed back in business or invested in PPF.
There was a belief that business would always be very good, so no land was bought and no equity investments were made. Some PPF investments were done for tax planning. Even my mother didn’t buy gold.
Such was the belief in business that no investment was made for a kid’s future education and marriage. Two-three big losses and there were no backup assets. So diversification is very important, never put all your eggs in one basket.
I also lost Rs 10 lacs recently!
I would also like to share one incident from my life where I lost money personally and learned an important lesson.
As I come from a business background, I wanted to get into some kind of business. But, I recently lost around 10 lacs in a business I started in partnership with my friend. A business plan was good but somehow it did not work out as per the plans. I learned an important lesson that “Slow and steady wins the race” .
Had I kept the money in my equity Mutual funds, they would have yielded good returns, but that’s fine. You learn from your mistakes. I took a calculated risk, hence the impact on me was less.
Don’t be afraid of making mistakes especially when you are young and have lots of time in your hand in the future.
One suggestion for your future
Manish asked me if I can share one insight I want to share with every one of you out of my years of experience and from my life.
So here it goes…
One should always have a plan B in life, like what will I do if tomorrow my company kicks me out, I have plans like starting a business, someone in IT may be looking at re-skilling or someone can survive on rent/dividend, etc.
There should be a little basket for every goal, as a plot of land for my daughter’s marriage which I will not touch, in my case, we thought that the running money in the business would be sufficient enough to meet all kinds of expenses or emergencies.
All this is a part of financial planning, so even if you are very talented today and earning much more than you require for your expense, you may feel that financial planning is for the poor or middle class, but that thought is not right. In fact when the going is good; that’s the best time to amass assets.
A real-life example of my friend family
One of my father’s friends with a similar profile, good business which subsequently went bust had a lot of good shares like HUL, SBI at IPO pricing (imagine HUL @10 INR) and he never sold. Can you believe he gifted AUDI to his daughter only from the wealth created by equities (he showed us the Demat slip the day he sold shares)?
If you are low in wealth right now, then I have just 2 things to say
- Be Frugal, don’t copy your friends and cousins and overspend
- Try to increase your income, learn some extra skills, work overtime, etc…
Is your happiness linked with money?
Yes, For me it is linked; in the sense that I should be able to provide. There should always be enough money to support the family, health, education, retirement.
One should not ignore the value of good health, relationships, and friends. Even if one has all the money and there is no health or family to enjoy, then what is the use of all the wealth in this world? Given a choice, I will choose the later over money.
I feel very good after writing my story. Jagoinvester is providing a very good platform to share your life story. Even if few of the readers can take away a few lessons I will feel that the effort is worth.
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